TNR Happenings, April 25, 2022
Discounted tickets for the May 14th Mr. Miyagi Training
Buy your discounted ticket for the Mr. Miyagi training by this Friday. A note to Canadians: the borders for dissidents without papers will in all likelihood not be open in time. Hopefully, the border will be open in time for Love Has No Color’s Boot Camp/Fun Days in August. We have had multiple Canadians successfully make the journey to Massachusetts over the last few weeks. It can be done. I will speak to you personally about the xs and os. Several Canadians y work from home and a quarantine restriction is of no consequence so making the journey is a no-brainer. You’ve got to be willing to keep your mouth shut, keep off social media, no texting, and no asking for punishment. If there ever was a time to shore up the community of TNR, it’s now. It’s the only supportive environment you can find where people don’t care about your personal health choices, religion, letters next to your name, age, gender, etc. TNR will support and encourage your success. Be here on May 14th.
Was I Dreaming?
Thank you everyone for allowing me to travel to the Reservation for the dedication of the 23 million dollars Thundering Buffalo Health and Wellness Center. Even though I was traveling solo, each and every one of you were with me. I was in the brand new gymnasium and there were maybe 100 various dignitaries, representatives from other tribes, politicians, etc. In my mind, I couldn’t stop thinking of Kenny receiving the Nobel Prize for advancing Native American culture by introducing them to healthy lifestyles. I silently wondered why there weren’t representatives from each Reservation far and near. I wondered why there weren’t more government representatives. Wouldn’t all Reservations and Reserves want a complex like this? Kenny literally opens the playbook and shows the way to all tribes who express interest. Then I answered my own question: it can’t be done without a Kenny-esque leader and most reservations simply don’t have a person like that. A humble man of wisdom and vision who doesn’t give up or give in when the chips are down is a rare find. He also doesn’t dominate, bully, threaten, or use force to get things done. He uses true power through prayer (non-religious) and taps into the infinite for guidance and wisdom. He is a kind and gentle man with a biting quiet sense of humor that sometimes you only realize days later.
Most Nobel laureates are not popular or well known. Their niche is virtually unknown to the majority no matter how incredible the vision is. Just because the majority don’t know the magnitude of his vision, it doesn’t decrease or diminish what it will mean to humanity. Did you know that in addition to the suicide rate plummeting, the life expectancy is up to 53? When we started 18 years ago it was in the low 40’s. That’s got Kenny’s fingerprints and DNA all over it. Maybe nobody else will make this conclusion on the Reservation, but it still needs to be said and acknowledged. Kenny has the vision, but he also recruits and builds teams, much like Dr. Guy Riekeman does. The people on his teams are inspired, loyal, and will go to war for him. Kenny mentioned Love Has No Color was the first group that joined his team and the oldest group on the Reservation with 18 years of continual service even during the plandemic.
One of the things that he mentioned during his speech was every one of us has a gift. Share the gift. Do the right thing always. It doesn’t matter if it will be posted on social media. Do it anyway. It doesn’t matter if you will get paid for it. Do it anyway. He is a tireless, advocate for health and wellness on the Reservation for all, with an emphasis on the next generation. He mentioned how Darryl Red Eagle (who has passed on) would be smiling from ear to ear. Darryl was among the first to welcome our group with open arms even before we met Kenny Smoker. Kenny Smoker had the vision, but he needed the help and support of hundreds of others. Long after the wagon has pulled up to signal his days on earth are over, this complex will be a lasting legacy that continues to help his people. He is a once-in-a-lifetime brother and friend to TNR and all of humanity.
The tribe presented a once-in-a-lifetime quilt to me. The huge star is made up of colorful swatches of material and material with guitars on it. The backside of the quilt is orange. The quilt is so beautiful and was made especially for me!
From the Mind of Miyagi
Hooking tunas is a personal power issue, not a new patient issue. The world of appearance tries to explain why you can’t attract new patients at will and offers you smoke and mirrors solutions. The reason why you can’t hook tunas is such an inconvenient truth and goes against all of what your professors told you (like technique, class rank, computer billing systems, academia, letters next to your name, being an associate, dogma, etc.) The map is not the territory. Each week I hear members utter these phrases. Yet the more these members resemble an operator, the more they don’t agree with it and they think I’m withholding the mysterious ways or secret sauce of the elusive new patient. The shift towards being an owner is the only thing that matters with hooking tunas. Everything else will fall into place. Being in TNR is like an exorcism of your past life and behaviors as an operator. Your operator upbringing is like a ghost that keeps haunting you and won’t leave. The shift towards an owner is a journey, not a destination. Not wanting to train, not having a minimum of 2 Head-to-Heads annually, and skipping TNR events is a dead giveaway that you are not willing to make your operator shadow disappear permanently. Coaching calls connect, nurture, and expand the experiential learning gained at events. If you’re only doing coaching calls then you might as well be on Zoom in yoga pants. Hooking a tuna (Level 2/DCME) is the same for a doctor or a lay healer, coach, etc. It’s about your resonation, your conviction, and your ‘why’. What’s really under your hood: are your serving the higher good of others (world of essence) or serving the higher good of yourself (world of appearance)? All of your training in TNR removes the layers of the onion (personal history, personal power) that sabotage you no matter how smart you think you are or how much academia, etc.
The world of appearance is good at bringing up doubt and fear every time you attempt to venture into the unknown. If you are losing weight, you must surrender the results you want to be accepted by the majority of people who tried (and failed) to do what you are trying to do. “What type of exercise did you do? Oh, okay, I did that one too, it didn’t work for me either.” Welcome to the club of those who found themselves in frigid, shark-infested water and drowned. “What were you eating? Me too. That didn’t work.” “How good was your personal trainer? My guy was a show-off, who would always show me how flexible and strong he was. How does that help me?” If you have high personal power, it doesn’t matter; this venture (losing weight) is no different than any other mountain you’ve climbed. Once you take aim, there is no question the job will get done. Like Kenny Smoker said at the dedication of the Thundering Buffalo Health and Wellness Center last week, “These people from TNR are extraordinary people. No matter what resistance they encounter, they find a way to get the job done.” He said we are the only people he has ever seen that were not affected by the resistance, negativity, and pessimism on the Reservation. “They always get the job done on time.” Back to our weight loss example: these other considerations of the world of appearance have no bearing on you. It’s not that you are above the law, rules, etc. It’s that high resonating people don’t get limited by laws that are meant to keep you average and not able to get out of your comfort zone. You might say we have a ruthless intolerance for other people’s (up to and including spouses, parents, siblings, and friends) free, unsolicited advice for doing something that they have never done before. Is this ringing any bells for anyone?
In the world of appearance, there are always delicious substitutes and imitations available that are otherwise known as illusions that give the appearance of success in any endeavor you choose. Examples are lottery winners, 6/1000 rapists going to jail, flight attendants asking people in the exit row if they have read the information about what to do in case of a crash, etc. Nobody is listening and nobody cares in the world of ordinary affairs. TNR members in the land of essence do care. In the world of appearance, the solution or illusion for new patients is advertising and marketing that is so seductive, slick, and mysterious: You need this to be successful; you are inadequate and need this to measure up; you buy the secret to make money; you need 10,000 plus of online followers that you have to entertain, cow down to, and drag along with you wherever you go as you make an ass out of yourself on social media. Just like with the weight loss example, there are more losers than winners. Advertising and marketing is an extremely expensive fuel that gets you a trickle of ‘my back, my back’ people. It can’t hook tunas for you no matter how much you want it to. I get that there are some things out there that you may want to do in the world of advertising and marketing but ask this question: if your personal power was sufficient, would you want to waste money polluting your office with low quality, Level 1 people who in turn waste your time and personal power with skepticism, incessant questions, and the loyalty of a flea? High resonating people have a presence or magic. People want to be around them and are willing to pay the full fee for that honor and privilege.
I had a real treat last week as one of our extraordinary coaches had a consultation call with a prospective client who is a Chiropractor!!! I got to hear this through an audio recording like I was a fly on the wall. Our member was amazing! She isn’t a Chiropractor but she sure sounded like she was. She lives in the Chiropractic universe: she is a patient, has worked in a Chiropractic office, has dated a Chiropractor, and knows lots of TNR Chiropractors. She knows insider information, the lingo, and the nuances that you can’t find on social media. She is certain she could help this wayward Chiropractor. This unfortunate Chiropractor finds herself in her own practice that is hemorrhaging by the day. She got exposed as trying to do something that she is not qualified or trained for. Her husband can’t figure out why she isn’t successful. He is stumped since she graduated and has a license so why isn’t she successful? Resonation is the most critical factor in all relationships. He can’t see or hear what needs to be seen or heard to be highly successful any more than she can. He accepts her predicament as having no solution even though the solution is right on the phone with her! I’m sure she has good Chiropractic skills, but she just doesn’t have the real ingredients. She can speak but she can’t sing. She can print but she can’t draw. Without development, these abilities will never see the light of day. As a result, she remains bound and gagged to an all too familiar pattern. She finds herself lost and far away from shore as the memes she got bludgeoned with as a kid echo in her head: get a safe job, marry a man to solve economic security, have children. As familiar and comforting as this advice is, it won’t help her with her Chiropractic office. She is overwhelmed and terrified. She hasn’t grown up and under duress, she has a lisp slightly like a child. It wouldn’t surprise me if she was holding a stuffed animal or her childhood pillow as she was talking. Much of the consultation was spent in tears crying as she tried to convince our member that there was no way out for her. There was absolutely no curiosity to hear about the solution, only the doom of her supposed problem. Our member held her ground and would not agree with her. Just like many people, this Chiropractor wouldn’t know it if she held a diamond in her hands. Our member is that diamond, that perfect person to right the ship, but the reluctant Chiropractor says something so original and telling of her self-image: “I can’t afford it.” She is an operator to the core: a poser or dreamer without the grit to do the reps, grind, and dirty work necessary to once and for all get out of a hopeless circumstance. So counterintuitive to her world of appearance, she has to drop the story and find a way to hire our member, or she will pay a price for her pride. She currently belongs in the world of appearance. She may be a great wife and mother but trying to own her own practice is way out of her ability level. The world of essence is brutally honest. It doesn’t care if the person is pretty or handsome, their skin color, their gender, their religion, etc. They will still need a whisperer or Miyagi-type guide to pull the talent and hidden gifts out of them or they will stay an operator in the world of appearance. They need to be able to do things they won’t do by themselves.
To our members: stop telling the story about your inability to hook tunas. Don’t agree with it. It simply is not true. Develop the skills, do the dirty work of working on yourself (shadow work no matter how uncomfortable it is), and assume complete responsibility for your professional and personal life.
