TNR Happenings, August 8, 2022

What I know. For individuals and collectively, anytime you want change to enter your life, the steps are the same: practice, relationships, parenting, disease, opportunity, it's all the same.  

1. You must finally put your pride aside and understand you can’t do this by yourself. All the “I can’t afford it”s, “I’ll ask my spouse”, “Does insurance cover it?”, (will somebody do it for me?), simply won’t get it done. You have vastly overestimated your ability and underestimated what it will actually take to get the job done.  
2. You have underestimated the haunting, branding, and limitation of your upbringing or past history. All parents do their best, I suppose, but in that gradation is all kinds of abuse, conditional love, jealousy, envy, or you are the apple of their eye. Every time you venture into the unknown or enter into new relationships, your past history will smack you in the head and either propel you or stop you dead in your tracks.  
3. You are too firmly entrenched in the world of ordinary affairs. You answer to others for permission, don’t want to break the rules of authority, politicians, medical doctors (real doctors), and social media; you are too much an operator and a people pleaser. You can still have great relationships with people from your past; however ,the chains that imprison you must be given up once and for all.  
4. You have a dirty little secret that nobody knows about you and you are carrying around a galaxy of guilt/shame with it. It may be you or you may have been disappointed by a loved one who let you down, betrayed you, was not what you thought they were, etc. It throws a wet blanket on any sort of adventure, risk, or opportunity you may be interested in. Like a huge governor on an engine, it chokes off your true ability and presents to the world a beta, meek version of yourself: all talk and no action. Even when you take action, there is nothing behind it. Your life will be characterized by struggle, chaos, frustration, and failure. It’s been watered down and rendered impotent. I can’t tell you how many people I help that are attached to impotent people (feel sorry for, guilt). They either don’t realize it because it is invisible or they accept their impotence since they want to help or rescue them); this slowly leeches into their lives. I call it heavy metal poisoning. Like living with a lump of kryptonite. You don’t see it when you’re young: however, when you’re older, you can look back and see it very clearly.  
5. Ruthless intolerance for resistance. The lighthouse concept. Up to and including. When you make the journey into the unknown, from an operator to an owner, from unsuccessful to successful, from zero to hero, you can’t drag your past with you. It has to die to fertilize the new life you desire. You don’t drag a canoe over land with you once you have paddled to shore. What you have become is now the enemy of what you want out of life. Trust in the process. Have enough love for yourself to set someone free or not to sit there and listen to a lecture on disease, opinions/expectations of others, etc.  
6. Not asking for help is a passive suicide, not letting go of the rope, your head has been underwater too long, etc. The pride associated with not asking for help will kill you. I am not only speaking of suicide. How about diseases people will live or die with while they still believe their impotent doctors (like parents) when they say that nothing can be done. How about staying in spirit-robbing relationships when you know better? The doctors or your parents weren’t right about you in most cases.  There is hope and there are solutions; however, you have to be able to step out of your comfort zone and take the heat from family members and your former friends for doing so. Your life is worth it. And by the way, if you haven’t had a recent Head-to-Head, you’re being silly. Why would you be in TNR if you weren’t constantly bathing in a true gem, the majesty of H2H’s?  
7. You are going to have to leave the hearth of your comfort zone. It’s dirty, grimy, greasy, and uncomfortable. Get used to being uncomfortable. Who said it was going to be painless? Who said it would be without extreme effort?  
8. Replace having happiness in your life for purpose and meaning. It doesn’t put a smile on my face to see all the suffering in the world. Prozac can put a sh#& eating grin on your face. Happiness is overrated and extremely transient. Like cotton candy, you look forward to it and with your first taste, it turns hollow and gritty so you throw it away.

A Word About Miracle Training

I just finished a Miracle Training with a practice member of a TNR member. This TNR member literally saved the life of this individual. She recognized the danger signs as this person was drowning and at the end of his rope. This doctor has out-of-this-world clinical abilities; however, this case was a must win and it was a red flag case.  She called me immediately and referred him to me. We started the next day. Recognize the danger signs with your practice members, friends, and family. Check in with people. If a person is willing and able, they can achieve the impossible. A word from you can save a life. Don’t assume what their response will be. Their response is none of your business, you only need to share that you know this guy…   

If you see something or suspect something, let them know before it’s too late. I am available 7 days a week to receive calls about Miracle Training. All reading this should have paper or online copies of my information about Miracle Training.   

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