TNR Happenings, December 2, 2024
DCME Training Is On January 18th
Your skills don’t necessarily improve with time, regardless of whether you acknowledge it. You get competent, and that’s about it. Like an old person playing golf, your skills are not cumulative. Your adjusting skills plateau when you reach a certain point (2 or 3 years out in practice). Think of car driving: your skills do not improve without racing a car on a track. People and prosperity skills keep being played repeatedly with no thought of improving. You are practicing your mistakes! Thirty-year practitioners are still making deals and compromises and getting walked over like a well-worn rug. “Let’s try a couple of times a week and see what happens.” Are we speaking of clinical skills, marriage, parenting, or relationships in general? We get complacent, and good becomes the new norm. You can do what few others can (adjust the spine), but what you do is now taught on weekend seminars to PTs, massage therapists, osteopaths, PAs, etc. Staying with the old, worn-out strategy of being good enough is a meme in our society, except when it comes to must-win like your life or the life of a loved one. At TNR training sessions, something curious happens. You may have read it a thousand times, then someone says something, and it hits you right between the eyes, and you see it for the first time. “Yeah, I’m all too aware I have a mother wound.” Then, sitting next to an actual mother crying real tears of anguish who is healing from a painful wound, it becomes an opportunity not available in typical impersonal seminar settings. You know you are being taken advantage of by many in your world, yet you let it happen repeatedly. Suddenly I say, ‘Don’t do it’ and for just a moment, you actually can hear it and understand the danger you are in.
Beyond data, technique, and info, trainings are invitations to have a direct experience with a reality that you either don’t want to see, can’t see, or are stubbornly denying. The oral tradition is how indigenous cultures transmitted wisdom, not with data, information, or AI; this kept societies together for tens of thousands of years. Have you noticed how it takes weeks to process what went on in a single day at a training? Going over your notes never fails to surprise you. It keeps revealing to you something that is not acknowledged today: DEPTH, not 154 characters, someone else doing your thinking for you, or the socially endorsed 3-step cookbook to health, marriage bliss, or economic achievement.
Christmas on the Reservation
Wow! Wow! Wow! Members, LHNC supporters, and practice members have kicked in. Anonymous donors, repeat donors, and first-time donors are doing their thing. In over a week, 12 participants will head out to the Fort Peck Reservation to spread Christmas joy. They will hear the squealing and excitement from the toothless ones (first and second graders) and the same question every year about Tita: “Is she an elf?” They see us in the school halls, and the word spreads: they are here again. These gifts represent much more than a toy, a coat, a radio-controlled car, etc. They symbolize hope, being loved, and being recognized as having meaning. Simple gestures have life-changing implications. Let your practice members know of your efforts. Show them pictures, videos, etc. Seeing their gift in a child's hands sends joy down their spine. Make a Love Has No Color wall in your office. Raffle off a 2024 Christmas on the Reservation t-shirt. We have limited quantities.
From the Mind of Miyagi
Disregarding the spiritual dimension in our lives is disastrous! There is so much more to life than what you can see: data, information, and what society forces you to believe is valuable. A great mystery or sacredness gets extinguished very quickly in the world of the ordinary. Here is an example. Let’s say we are doing an experiment where we have 100 people in an obesity group and 100 people in a smoking group. We will instruct them for the next 4 years using books, tests, boards, etc. The obesity group will use exercise equipment, fitness regimes, diets, counting calories, and keeping track of good and bad cholesterol. We will teach the smoking group about black lung, show them what smoke does to the body, all the diseases that go along with it, etc.
The glorious day arrives when they graduate. Now, they are faced with knowing all about their problems and are to go out and solve them. Will this inner dimension manifest? Maybe it won’t. Of the 100 in each group, how many do you think will be able to solve their problems? Remember, they know everything there is to know about the issue, so the number should be in the high 90s, right? WRONG! This invisible dimension controls them so much more than what they can see. Anytime we venture into the unknown, we will be adrift in it regardless of how much we think we know. Healing from disease, marriage, parenting, entrepreneur…you will be exposed!
A spiritual dimension exists regardless of our recognition of it or if we believe in it. Indigenous cultures were guided, protected, and immersed in it; modern cultures have abandoned it entirely. We know better than a group of ignorant savages. We are more privileged and are more favored than our ancestors. You can think of it loosely as a connection to nature. Instead of a spiritual dimension today, science is the arbiter of truth. Like most religions, there is only one truth, and it’s my religion, not yours. If you are not endorsed by science, you are marginalized, made fun of, and not allowed to play in the world of ordinary reindeer games like the others.
You are doing something when you adjust or use any other healing method. Removing interference in the physical plane is helpful to all. If you access the spiritual dimension, you call in the heavy hitters. It’s heavy-duty time! There is more healing in the spiritual dimension than all dimensions combined. No new age, dark magic, or past lives nonsense is spoken here. It’s as real as gravity or electricity. When you commit everything you’ve got to a person, especially someone written off as hopeless, an entity different than you or them emerges or surfaces. As in a marriage, it’s not you or your spouse, it’s a new entity called US. It’s imbued with a sacred power, an exponentially more powerful divinity than the two of you combined.
Let’s say you are a stoic, analytical person who researches, carefully deliberates decisions, and does not like change. What are your chances of accessing this type of healing energy? Slim to zero. You will, by necessity, stay in the pool's shallow end with the kids and old people. Your personality type is a mask for staying in the known at all costs. If anyone challenges your views, you won’t associate with them; you will post nasty things about them on social media or denigrate them. The spiritual dimension lies in the unknown, not the known. Staying in the known puts a shallow ceiling of healing on you. Superficial pain and illness is all this approach is practical for.
Miracle Training
Holiday time always spikes interest in the welfare of people you care about. I get phone calls, texts, and emails about the possibility of helping family members and friends with Miracle Training. Contrary to popular thought, miracles are not solely on my end. I am a conduit, not the source. The other person has a higher likelihood of recovery if they have certain characteristics and don’t have others.
- Capacity for introspection
- Capacity to contact and express emotion
- See oneself and others objectively
- Acceptance of self-responsibility
- Receptivity/engaging attitude
- Willingness to integrate truth into their lives regardless of the pain it causes
And don’t have others:
- Too much cognitive intelligence, know-it-alls, and little miss can’t be wrong inhibits healing
- Narrow belief systems, poverty mindset, religious dogma, and rigid opinions are not helpful in healing
If you are honest with yourself, you know this is true in your offices. The good news in your offices is that most will not commit to appropriate recommendations, and you will be spared from finding out that they have more to do with their health than they acknowledge. With life and death cases, desperate caretakers, parents, and spouses want me to do the impossible. The reality of healing is they must do their part, and I must do my part. This sacred relationship can’t be done with any drug, chemo, radiation, amputation, or AI. I am very selective about the people I accept for Miracle Training care. The conditions have to be suitable for the miracle to occur.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: My DCME/Level 2 is improving, but they refuse to acknowledge it. What’s going on?
Answer: Most DCMEs are chronic in nature and to get to experience healing, a lot of history is going to be re-written. Some have the emotional maturity to do this and others get stuck in a type of victimhood or survivors remorse type of thing. Like a ferryman, your only job is to create a safe passage over the river of death and see what they do with a second chance if they choose to. You can’t live their lives for them. Help them, don’t carry them.
Question 2: I live in a poor area and have not been swimming in new DCME cases. Is what I charge maybe too much for this area?
Answer: This is simply a projection on your part. No shame, it’s just fear and guilt surfacing. Some of the most profitable private clinics in the US are in very small, rural areas.
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