TNR Happenings, January 20, 2025
Words Don’t Do It Justice
How can you explain DCME? Becoming your authentic self in this world is almost impossible. Masks and false selves are necessary to limit and avoid more pain. The more you work towards your true self, the more contrast you will experience (resistance!) from others who choose not to journey into the unknown. Think of crabs in the box! Memes, your childhood narrative, and what everyone thinks you should do are so much easier to follow, although inauthentic. You pay the price every time you look the other way and compromise when you know better. Can you see beyond what your linear, analytical eyes can see?
No matter how much time, focus, college education, and money you have, your previous social conditioning chokes the figure's essence. Imagine pushing a tire up a steep hill with clumps of dog mess on it, and you do it anyway instead of being stopped cold. You had to be there! Wearing a mask and seeing life through it, then removing it and seeing the liberation/freedom that has always been available to you. Great, good, mediocre, crossroad, and atrophy diagrams about relationships were witnessed at this training. We covered the tension of opposites, paradox, the tip of the iceberg, and being a witness to a miracle healing. There were no smoke and mirrors, tricks, drugs, psychedelic drugs, new age chicanery, etc. Someone remarked it felt like the air was sucked out of the room. The point is to stop repeating what others have told you can’t be done. There is a lot more to healing than what you have been told. New levels of healing can only be approached by pushing the envelope and then pushing it again. In the world of the ordinary, saying what can’t be done is a national anthem. In the world of essence/truth, you connect the invisible healing force to the physical. Believe it or not, the world’s first healers were shamans, not medical doctors. Nothing is mysterious here unless you think this healing force has been waiting millions of years for science to validate it. With Tita’s help, Dr. Julie provided scrumptious meals, desserts, and hospitality. She also revealed the grainy, black-and-white picture of the mountain lion/lynx in our backyard.
"Attending this DCME seminar was special. Each training is unique and offers a different treasure – this Saturday was no exception. The treasure came in the form of new concepts that I get to take back with me and allow to continue to reveal truths. Concepts were revisited, yet like an old Disney movie says – you don’t step in the same river twice. Time to clean up."
"Thank you, Dr. Kevin, for peeling back more layers of the onion into the psyche. Each event builds on top of the next and allows me to see deeper into the hidden/invisible parts of my life. I am freer now to be a more authentic version of myself. Free from people’s and society’s expectations of what I should do. Instead, I have the ability to be courageous and brave as I progress into a brighter, more amazing future. Thank you!"
"To say that TNR is a life-changing opportunity is an understatement. It is an opportunity to become your more authentic self. In this seminar, we were given the chance to talk about wearing the masks that we all do. If we do not remove them, we will never receive the life we truly desire."
"Thank you for another timely charged training to illuminate how our lives, in many ways, are ruled by the masks we wear and keep us either repeating the patterns over and over or growing and getting to where we want to be in this life. The DCME training helps us so much in helping people and ourselves to continue to overcome the limitations we find ourselves in our personal and professional lives. The dynamics of relationships appear everywhere and need to be worked through to be where we want and need to be."
"Having experienced the healing spirit through my own, more than once, it felt all too familiar; this time, not only through my own experience but through Dr. T's as well. A stillness with subtle bursts of energized motion is all that comes to mind. There was a difference between “round 1” and “round 2” of the treatment, almost like 2 halves of the same coin. Same song, different version, and so it is."
Love Has No Color News
Imagine if a group of conquering people came to your homeland and told you everything you have been doing for tens of thousands of years was wrong. Your worldview, the gods you worship, your way of life and dress, and your government were wrong, and they said they would fix all of it for your good. They said their way of life is the only one endorsed by their gods. They also said they were authorized and endorsed by their god; if you resist and don’t adopt our ways, we will imprison you, torture you, steal your land and resources, and if we have to, we will kill each one of you.
This genocide is not limited to the New Americas; it’s with indigenous people worldwide. Did you know that in many areas of the world, the penalty for having/making a drum is beheading? Drumming and shamans are outlawed under penalty of death by the church. Not your church, it was another one…lol! There is a vast difference between what you think Naïve American is versus indigenous. There is no geography or culture; instead, it is a universality of being united with the sacred, the earth, and the cosmos. Indigenous goes back to cave wall drawings. Nobody is appropriating or playing Native American anything. Healing is available to all, accessible by only a select few who dedicate their lives to helping others. Having a Samurai sword was the same in Japan. The government seized and melted down all swords. They were considered primitive, holding people back with Samurai mythology, etc. There is a reason this history is not taught in any school or university in the US. It shows a shameful way people were treated or dominated if they were in the way of forward progress. We saw this with covid and its politically-based agenda that divided people with the government-endorsed unity of being obedient puppets willing to be poisoned to be a good comrade.
Love Has No Color is our way of not righting the wrong but instead honoring America’s deepest wounds and preserving the spirit of Indigenous people everywhere in the world. And you thought it was just a few presents at Christmastime! It’s about not forgetting and giving a voice to the original caretakers of the earth. Their voice is needed more today than ever! Our culture pollutes everything it gets its hands on for profit. It would not be an exaggeration to say our survival as a species depends on hearing this voice that cares for the earth that gives us life.
From the Mind of Miyagi
What does it take to truly live a life of excellence rooted in reality, truth, and authenticity and not in the world of the ordinary (social media, politics, religion, insurance, memes, war, disease, etc.)? You must pay a price, and the price is STEEP! You must have the tenacity, ability, and courage to let go of concepts, assumptions, and people not tuned into your path. His is not welcomed, valued, or aspired for in the land of the ordinary. It’s just the opposite. Every person you will ever meet has an agenda tattooed on their brain of following social conventions, beliefs, and mores and will remind and resist you at every turn that you weren’t brought up that way; your parents would be so ashamed of you right now.
Have you ever attempted to invite a non-believer into your bubble? There is no morality, good and bad; it’s according to your shedding your personal history, decrees from your parents, outlooks on life itself, and re-establishing your connection to source/nature/God. Like Hachi, the uninitiated cock their heads from side to side, attempting to understand or comprehend the words, but they do not have the resonation, inclination, or capacity to learn anything above and beyond neutered social media mentality. Have you ever tried to put into words what beats in your heart? If you are in a high level relationship, your partner will not understand and they don’t need to understand, they love and support you unconditionally. That is not to say they will let you know if you are beginning to teeter on the edge of being too far out there.
The tension of opposites means that every person, place, or concept has opposing polarities that are not opposing; instead, they are two sides of the same coin: pleasure, pain, health, disease, light, and darkness. If you were viewing a battery, one end is the positive, and one end is the negative. Suppose the battery, concept, or paradigm is to develop the necessary vitality or life. In that case, you must be able to navigate or oscillate between the two poles, not become stuck at either pole. When you can’t integrate the two poles, you can get far adrift from your authentic true self.
The tension of opposites is alive and well, even if you don’t know of it or recognize its underpinnings. You have a good CA who you pay $3,000 plus a month and your stats are not improving. Keep her because she is loyal, patients love her, and she is on time. No, your CA is not in charge of your monthly economics. If you have a great fit, a winner, your stats will reflect this tension of opposites. She has never done this before (like being a mother for the first time), yet there has been a hum to the office since her arrival. Her enthusiasm will lift your office to new heights. So won’t a lover or spouse. With most relationships, you don’t get a higher return on investment or quality of life because you weren’t placed in the proper container that allows you to shine. A recent graduate of MT was imprisoned or held hostage in a container of fear, grief, etc. When he was introduced to a water container, he didn’t need to be taught how to swim; he flourished.
High-level achievers have to push away a perfectly good employee and search for a right-fit employee who will lift whatever environment they are placed in. Weeding a garden is never painless, and cracks of doubt will linger. You will talk to yourself, saying maybe they are right. Try firing a good employee or good lover, and the sparks will fly! “Why are you doing this? I’m giving you my best” (not really!). “Tell me the exact reason why you are firing me so I can fix it for my next employer.” No answer will suffice. They will feel offended, hurt, or angry because their best is not good enough. In the world of ordinary, you are a di#k, a mean person, there is no satisfying you, etc. They may be good enough for the world of the ordinary, but not what will fit into your world. People will say you are being unrealistic; nobody is out there like that, etc. Will you let the expectations of the mediocre slow you down or permanently hold you down, or will you unshackle yourself and walk into freedom?
Miracle Training
This morning my bat phone rang. Monday is a very popular day when the sh%& hits the fan over the weekend. It’s a MT graduate, and she has a potential client in dire circumstances. Is it a coincidence that I am writing the TNR happenings and have a background soundtrack playing a specific song that has much meaning for her? Her friend has x,y, and z. Everyone around him knows he is in trouble and has advice from complete ignorance, social media, etc. The MT graduate knows EXACTLY what he needs, regardless of whether he will accept the help. What are the odds that an old friend knows a guy with the solution? Almost infinite, and yet that is precisely what is going on. Because she knows the investment and courage it takes, she also knows the opinions of family, friends, etc., mean absolutely nothing when saving a life. She speaks from direct experience; everyone else speaks from ignorance, memes, believing others, and other forms of impotence.
DCME Confidential
You had to be there!
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