TNR Happenings, June 2, 2025
Are You The Hunter Or The Hunted?
DCME Is On July 12th
Explore uncharted territory. Regardless if you are a doctor, healer, coach, etc., this is the forbidden fruit. You are supposed to be good little boys and girls and accept your limitations imposed upon you by regulatory boards, governments, insurance companies, society, etc. What if you could develop miraculous healing abilities? Would you do it or stick with your outdated toolkit that you got once upon a time? The two sides of the same coin are paradoxically healing and economic. There has been a decided movement towards economics. The reality is you can have both, depending on your alignment, to the highest good of your practice members, or give people what they want: PAIN RELIEF only? Pain relief is only a small part of health. Non-integrous people will resist you tooth and nail when you attempt to introduce health instead of pain relief. Imagine not developing your intellect and simply going with what you have. Health is the number one asset, recognized or not. Summer flies by, so call Dr. Julie today and claim your discounted ticket.
Love Has No Color News
Wednesday, July 30, to Sunday, August 3, are the dates, including travel days. The location is the Eagle Seeker Community Center in Billings, MT. This is an all-hands-on-deck event. Guests, family members, and VIP practice members are all invited. Please get your fundraising efforts underway. This is our first adventure in Billings, so be aware of the shifting nature of the best-laid plans. I have been on video calls for months now, and we have never worked with this crew. There will be lots of surprises and audibles called. Be flexible and adaptable, as plans have a reputation for falling through. Like Navy Seals, we will come in prepared and ready. We have a mantra when doing events like this: bring the necessary supplies and manpower, and welcome any help that may be available. We will be near a major city, so shopping for supplies should be a breeze.
From the Mind of Miyagi
Develop a mindset for working with difficult people. What are you to do when people are below 200 on the scale of consciousness by Dr. David Hawkins (on the last page of the Grief Retreat Manual), below the line, as we say? When people come in to see you, they are not looking to develop health. They want quick and inexpensive pain relief or symptom relief. They don’t know about health, and act the only way they know how: with resistance, saying they can’t afford it or don’t have the time, etc. Many people are not interested in their health. Lots of people refuse to participate in physical fitness. Most people don’t read except for escapism, like with romance novels.
Getting angry or hostile does not work. Adding acid to ignorance is the recipe for war, and they can’t hear what you are saying. The paradox is that you can’t let them run the show, but you can’t force them to engage in ongoing health. Serve them up to their capacity without becoming a doormat. Some people won’t follow your recommendations, and some will. Stop focusing on the won’ts. Let’s say a person comes in for x,y,z symptoms. Are you an order taker: right sciatic pain extending down the leg which is worse with sitting, or do you attempt to engage in a relationship? “What does this pain prevent you from doing?” is a much more potent question. It invites the person to join you in a sacred partnership, sharing a common goal and purpose. After they complete their care, agree to meet them at the track, ice arena, pool, or gym, etc. Get them engaged with you rather than merely attempting to reduce their symptoms only.
You can get in lots of trouble when you assume your people have the same values as you do. That’s how conflicts start: it’s called war. Neither side can nor will listen to the other. Even if they try to listen, they can’t hear you. If you kill prisoners, you are mutually exclusive to others who care for and feed their prisoners. One is viewed as primitive, and the other is weak. This is paradigm blindness at its finest. Don’t spend your time attempting to fix paradigm blindness. It isn't fixable. Work with open-minded, open-hearted people who can respect individuals as leaders.
Miracle Training
Most of us reading this are aware of people who are in dire straits, but the prevailing conditions have persisted not just for weeks or months, but for years. Many MT clients' cases were not what they seemed. Many had visited doctor after doctor who agreed with what can’t be done. Then the client accepts the condition and the lifestyle of sickness that comes with it. Here is a hidden necessary condition: economics. AKA, someone is being held hostage. We often do it out of love, but it still won't solve the problem. It pushes the solution further and further away.
Every person I have cared for with MT has had lots of doctor visits and always an ominous diagnosis. I always ask the person, “Does having the tutti fruity diagnosis help with the solution or keep the disease in place? People worship diagnosis. It verifies and ratifies giving up and living with it, with no hope in sight. People have been programmed to stop at diagnosis, embrace it, call it their disease, and live with it. If you are diagnosed as being overweight, the answer is to lose weight, not to classify it.
If you have never delved into the frigid, shark-infested waters of complicated cases, you have never seen family and social dynamics that prevent the person from ever recovering. Don’t put your hand on a hot stove. Don’t argue, share instead. Paint a picture of what life without these circumstances would be like.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: My DCME never misses, pays on time, and is very friendly and engaging. The problem is that they refuse to do their homework with the DCME video. I’ve tried every angle. What should I do?
Answer: Most people can’t understand the trouble they are in and instead insist you TREAT them (do something to them.) They want drugs, amputation, chemo, radiation, or something where you do it for them. For HEALING, you need their input. A personal trainer can’t do the exercises for them. Their healing rests not only on you, but on them. There is an art to caring for deeper-level people.
Question 2: My 12-year-old DCME keeps cancelling by text at the last minute, and her mother keeps making excuses for her. How do I handle this?
Answer: She is very clever and is hiding behind her mother, knowing she doesn’t want her little darling’s feelings hurt. Not to be cruel or unkind, but there is emotional distress that must be navigated. You can’t avoid this, and you must move through it now, not tomorrow or maybe in the summer when her schedule is more flexible. There is only now for solutions.
Marley
