TNR Happenings, November 10, 2025
Don’t Let Me Go!
This was an emotional musical backdrop that is rarely examined in the clinical care of people in dire circumstances. They have a sinking feeling that there is nobody who will stand before them in truth, and they are being held hostage in an emotional prison of suffering, pain, and disease, with no end in sight and no parole. Every time you accept a person into your practice, go the extra mile; don’t let them go. It’s easy to agree with what can’t be done. Concentrating on the low-hanging fruit, the easy cases like my back, my back, is for the ordinary doctor, the doctor who is not invested in helping others to a higher quality of life. Represent your TNR training and stop being intimidated by cases that others avoid by running for the hills.
Christmas on the Reservation Will Be in Poplar!
Just a couple of days ago, Kenny Smoker and his former right-hand person, Vernice Chopper, were on a conference call with me, asking whether we would consider coming to Poplar this year to hand out gifts to the kids, as we have for over 2 decades. Vernice is now on the Tribal Council, and Kenny’s cousin, Floyd, is the chairman. Kenny agreed with us that we would have the most significant impact in Poplar, since we already have systems and contacts in place. We will also be handing out food to the super needy. The dates are the same —December 11th and 12th —but we will be flying into Williston, ND, and distributing gifts in Poplar and the surrounding towns. Please note that the address for sending the gifts has changed. As soon as we have that information, we will let you know. Donations, donations, donations are needed!
From the Mind of Miyagi
As if pain were not difficult enough, when a person delves into the dark, icy, shark-infested waters of disease, they find more invisible resistance. Social conditioning dictates a complete, invisible allegiance to disease. This allegiance includes technology, drugs, surgery, and MDs as a deity. At a deep unconscious level, they will accept the disease and its limitations with no resolution in sight. Straying from this mandate rattles the spiderweb of tribal affiliation, survival, exile, and banishment. In other words, social disapproval. When a person accepts the social survival mandates of the society they live in, this unconsciously sets into motion the world of STRUGGLE! It’s always on their mind. They are at war with themselves. They speak, promote, and champion the language of disease, limitation, and problems.
Most patients want to be rescued without having to play a part in their own healing. They want it done to them and to be taken care of by a “de facto” parent to make it all better. Part of this overlay is an unconscious shutdown of emotions like guilt, shame, and grief. They may engage in superficial activities to alleviate symptoms, but deep down, they have accepted their fate. Think of all the activities parents of autistic kids do in service to their kids, but produce little or no results or resolution. It becomes their disease, a piece of themselves that they will not surrender, even up to and including their death. A secret known to few is that they have a HUGE hand in their suffering. The suffering is separate and distinct from the pain and disease. It’s worn like armor. It garners sympathy from others and controls them (think of old people). They are heavy to be around, and if you are not careful, they will be like life energy vampires.
They get something (juice, sympathy, attention) at a deep, unconscious level, even though they will vehemently deny it since they are consciously unaware of. To help people at a deep level, you must lead them on a path of bravery into the unknown. People want certainty (technology) in their lives, and you must give up the need for the supposed certainty that diagnosis, imaging, amputation, etc., provides. With all suffering, it comes down to internal resistance. Disease is a doorway, an invitation to look at life differently; they are at odds with what is reality and are looking for external fixes in all the wrong places.
Disease and chronic conditions are not a punishment. It’s an illuminating flashlight in their lives to look differently deep inside themselves. Think of addiction, and you will see this front and center.
Miracle Training
A revolutionary concept that will not catch on because of the fascination in Western culture with the lack of health (disease/suffering) and because the money is in war, sickness, disease, its naming, etc., is the concept that a disease in your body is the effect of what is held in your mind. You had tiny, invisible seeds of disease, suffering, and lack planted in your head when you were small. Examples are chance remarks, long since forgotten and buried deep in your subconscious. Assumptions, beliefs, and past histories are fictional narratives or stories. Yes, they happened, but they are not true. You made them up according to your perceptions, opinions, feelings, etc. They hold no more truth than war, oppression, and domination of women and kids, or Daylight Saving Time. They are strictly man-made (not true) and generated by the small self/ego/mind.
On top of these life stories or narratives are unconscious grief, shame, and guilt. These act as gasoline or catalysts for these invisible seeds of accepting illness, lack, accidents, etc. These two ingredients act in tandem to bring unwanted states to an unsuspecting person. Treating the physical is beneficial to some, but just too superficial for others. Unification, initiation, and transformation get the job done when all other treatments and modalities fall short.
A heart attack seems brutally sudden, when in truth, this was invisibly building up for years, even decades. Working on the physical heart is the aim of medicine. This is certainly prudent, but what about the inner conditions that contributed to the heart attack? The physical damage must be mitigated as much as possible, but the person's life must be examined, and changes must be made. These invisible causes must be addressed. I just wanted to let you know that there is no life coaching spoken here. Sheltering, holding space, and not letting go of the person prevail here. What is stress and objectionable to one person is natural and normal to another. The individual must be considered, not just the disease, pain, or condition.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: I hear you speak so often about going unconscious. What do you mean?
Answer: You go unconscious when staring at your computer, being with boring people, eating while watching TV, etc. The puppet strings of your programming are unconsciously guiding you. This is under your radar, reinforcing unwanted and unproductive thoughts, behaviors, and deeds.
Question 2: You mention the ups and downs for DCME/Level 2 clients; what about the doctor?
Answer: You must have the preparation, willingness, and desire to enter relationships to help others. When you are in that position, it’s not all peaches and cream.
Marley & Sunny
