TNR Happenings, December 8, 2025
DCME Is Not For The Meek!
Some doctors who are not familiar with TNR may say my teaching is nonsense or lofty but impractical. But to those who have looked deep inside themselves, this nonsense makes perfect sense. And to those who put it into practice, this loftiness has roots that go deep. How can a patient (who is also a doctor) of a high level, long-standing TNR member join our group and apply the principles she received in DCME care to her own practice? She did, and she is having more fun, the most profit in her career, and the joy has been put back in practice and life. How does this happen? Principles, not procedures, menisci, compliance, or billing software, that’s how. DCME is on January 17th. What a way to start the New Year!
Fort Peck Reservation Here We Come!
The time has come for a small group of elves to venture into the frozen tundra. Thank you for all your generous donations; each kid will receive a gift and a whole lot of love. What I love observing every year is the quality and the thought that went into the purchase of these gifts. Head elf, Dr. Julie, was scouring the internet every night for gifts that would bring smiles to the kids’ faces. These gifts are the same as what we would purchase for our own kids or grandkids. I suspect there will be lots of dodgeball, fitness challenges, and roughhousing with the kids. The spiritual component of TNR runs deep with LHNC. It’s an inner strength that imbues each and every one of our members. There is something about being in TNR. It’s selfless service to others in need, which is almost unheard of in the world of the ordinary. An ingredient that I see evaporate in time with some is the loss of service to others. If you’re not careful, it can degenerate into the profit-over-people mindset so prevalent in Chiropractic today. If you have any last-minute donations, contact Dr. Julie.
From the Mind of Miyagi
When I was growing up, it was uncommon for people to hug. They would shake hands or punch you on the shoulder, but PDA-like hugs were forbidden. Then peace, new age, yoga, reiki, and massage groups were introduced, and hugging was okay. Now, hugging has disappeared once again. Yes, people still hug with a superficial, non-sincere, shallow hug that you would reserve for someone with covid (if you believe in the germ theory). The fake, good-to-see-you rot that passes for a warm embrace is a sterile facsimile of an engaging hug from the past, like virtual is to real, or Zoom is to being in person. Recently, I saw a person hug someone while he was reading a text message on his phone. He must have been multi-tasking!
Not only have hugs gotten more superficial, but so has being a doctor. The sense of urgency or the pride of actually being able to make a difference has been replaced by the boredom and monotony of staff meetings, insurance coverage, computer compliance, etc. They don’t walk around with their chests out and shoulders back; it is more like a meek, sterile veneer of a dentist, a physio, or other part-time role player in the disease industry. You are a doctor, doctor; it’s a lifestyle, not just something you do to earn a living. Do you look up to celebrities, athletes, or social media influencers? What?
The most important person in indigenous society was the healer, the shaman. Today, it’s the profiteer. Health, truth, and wisdom are way down on the list of what most superficial people care about. The new God is technology, drugs, wizardry, and research. Kneel at its altar, and all will be okay. Or will it? The use of force is at an all-time high in relationships, parenting, and government compliance and subservience (think covid here). When you use power, there are no side effects, enemies for life, pollution, etc. Don’t allow a society that is functionally asleep to devalue what you provide for your patients. Don’t be pushed around by ungrateful, arrogant practice members. Stay in your lane and keep to your principles.
Miracle Training
Those fortunate enough to be at the last training got to hear and see a Miracle Training case. Of particular note was the family and social dynamics surrounding the client. Despite what you’ve been taught by professors who aren’t qualified to do this type of work, it’s not all X’s and O’s. There are so many subtle and not-so-subtle overtones that affect healing to the point of being incurable.
The disease/pain is a different entity from the self-induced fear of suffering and worrying about the future. In virtually all circles, they are lumped together with disastrous results. The suffering is not real, but it complicates all illnesses. It is a difficult premise to attempt to convey to the client. “You mean I’m creating much of my suffering? That’s ridiculous!” And yet, it is self-imposed. The reason they can’t see it is that their ego, mind, or small self runs their lives without their knowing. It’s automatic, invisible, and happens in an instant, without them ever knowing.
When you introduce this concept to the client, sparks will fly as their ego, mind, or small self will become enraged and will attack you, discredit you, fire you, or shut down like a small child. Always remember, no deep change can be made without agitation, ambiguity, and uncertainty on the part of the patient. This is their part, and you can’t do it for them. When they are pushed up against their comfort zone, they will resist and push back. It’s rarely the disease that determines the outcome; instead, it’s the inner grit the patient displays.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: I just got an anorexic 11-year-old girl, and my treatment includes super high-calorie protein shakes, a book on anorexia, and, of course, adjustments. Anything else I should include?
Answer: You are not grasping the principles of DCME. You are doing what has been done before. Could you call me, and I will explain? This girl’s highest good is not being served.
Question 2: My DCME client is very unappreciative and grumpy. I crack jokes or attempt to get him to lighten his mood, but nothing seems to work. What do you think I should do?
Answer: Stay the course. Some people are just negative, and there is no changing them. Please don’t take his perception of what you are doing for what you are actually doing for this person. Truth doesn’t need any witnesses.
Marley & Sunny
