TNR Happenings, August 18, 2025
Tao of TNR Is On Sept 13th
This promises to be a welcome relief from the bloodless dance of superficiality, like with many doctors and people of healing who dabble and nibble instead of taking healthy bites. This is not about real estate, computers, landscaping, etc. This is at the core of existence. We are all connected by health, regardless of our understanding of it. How can you continue to use old, outdated methodology, influences, and limitations and convince yourself that this is your best effort? The usual and customary wailings and gnashing of teeth excuses of “I can’t find quality new patients”, “People in my town don’t want anything except pain relief”, or “People in my area won’t put up for anything besides the role played by symptom relief.” The continual pursuit of excellence is your only insulation from the world of the ordinary, wearing you down. Miracles may or may not be in your future, but take a step or two towards that potential. It’s available and accessible to all. The Sunday Head-to-Head date has been snatched up, but Friday is still open as of this writing. Discounted tickets are available until September 5th.
Love Has No Color Updates
Who were those commandos? The Seeking Eagle Community Center is still reeling from our Fun Days visit. Where do they hail from? What organization do they represent? These are some of the questions that Kenny Smoker has fielded since our visit. To see us in action answers all of the superficial questions. All questions were answered. Kenny is putting together a few needy schools for us to serve with Christmas on the Reservation. Stay tuned. I’m calling on members to join me during our favorite time of year, spreading cheer to these kids. It’s who we are.
From the Mind of Miyagi
If you have any distractions or if you are not in the mood for some deep concepts, please come back later to read this writing. Do you think you understand the actual mechanism of healing? The first thing you need to do is let go of the false belief that you do. You don’t. There is your part, which you can continuously improve with TNR training, and then there is the part of the practice member that has nothing to do with you. If you don’t enter into a sacred relationship of trust, you are attempting to do the person’s part without them lifting a finger. On top of that, a higher power or spirit is absent. A point that you may or may not know is that the person’s troubled small self/ego may not want to heal. They may get satisfaction from being sick. It’s called the lifestyle of sickness.
Sickness, pain, anxiety, and fear are palpable entities in the land of appearance where the small self/ego can voice its complaints. They can be held hostage for prolonged periods. It’s a type of protest, folding their arms across their chest, holding their breath, and turning blue. The ego will silently thwart their efforts to get better. It sends out its agents of resistance in all of their forms, ad nauseam: I can’t afford it, does insurance cover it, do you guarantee results, I’ll have to ask my spouse. It will not let sickness go under any circumstances. When you see a person who has been to X number of doctors with no resolution, BEWARE, BEYOND THIS POINT BE DRAGONS.
A person’s failure to join up or embrace your relationship is a dead giveaway. Their attitude is getting rid of their disease/symptoms, or they will get rid of you. Does this sound familiar to anyone? Who does this person have to answer to? An insurance company, spouse, covid nazi, or family member. Any change that is made will come under the iron fist of scrutiny, negativity, and skepticism. I have had legal pushback from people overcoming sickness, permanent disability, etc. Imagine an insurance company that tells you the number of visits they will pay for. As if that’s not restricting enough, the practice member obeys the authorities and won’t go past their recommendations, even though great results were being made. It’s between you and the practice member; the more agencies, people, or institutions you include, the more the results plummet.
Resistance is the antithesis of clinical results. It has many forms. Negativity, I don’t believe that, I would never, I can’t, etc. The actual person is unwilling to accept a solution to the problem. They would rather die than do what you ask. The ego has a stranglehold over this person. Without the courage or the ability to navigate the situation, the illness persists, and the ego presents lifetime membership in the club of victimhood.
Miracle Training
This is a continuation of the above article. Physical survival is one thing, and social survival is another. One is a physical death, and the other threatens you with death, but you are not going to die if you speak in public. Do you realize that pain and symptoms prevent and give a person a socially approved reason why they can’t step up, work, function in society, answer the bell, take on a difficult circumstance, etc. When I was a kid, we received soda or ice cream for being sick; you poor thing. Everyone doted on us and paid attention to us. It was different for my kids when they were growing up: they were adjusted and then stayed in their beds (with no privileges or rewards) to rest and recuperate. Nobody was mad at them: we emphasized health, not sickness.
A common theme I have encountered while working with incurable clients is: people have left them, betrayed them, abused them, withheld love, etc. They don’t need more sympathy, more disability, or more laws on the books to help those with this particular illness; they need a tough man/woman to make a tender chicken. They need to permit themselves to reclaim that which was lost or stolen previously. It can’t be done by coddling, feeling sorry for them, etc. They need someone who will finally tell them the truth. Most times, it involves them hearing the truth for perhaps the first time in their life.
I always ask people, is it more important to play your social roles or is your life more important? Believe it or not, I have had people who are willing to let go of the rope in life to serve the small self/ego role that they were talked into playing. When I famously say, “Don’t do it”, I’m seeing how deeply hypnotized a person is in their journey to death. Is there enough courage to claim their life, or are they willing to tap out because they refuse to see their part in producing the circumstances they find themself in? To people who are not in the life and death business, I can be seen as ruthless, uncaring, abrasive, etc. To the world of Miracle Training, it’s, as Kenny Smoker says, the answer to his people’s prayers.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: I have warned a DCME client repeatedly that risky behavior will bring them down. Even though they have much to lose, they do it anyway and are suffering the consequences. What gives?
Answer: Like a puppet on strings, they are hypnotized and can’t hear what you’re saying. Do the best you can with compassion and kindness, but they must also meet you halfway.
Question 2: I lowered my fees and recommendations to help a DCME who needs the help. Now they have become a nightmare and a bane to my existence. What should I do?
Answer: Embrace the suck and don’t do it again. You deserve it! It is nobody’s fault but your own. Own it.
Marley & Sunny
