TNR Happenings, October 7, 2024
Mr. Miyagi Training Is On November 9th
It’s important to know that by attending a TNR training, you are going against the grain of much of your social conditioning. This conditioning only knows the old and familiar patterns of behavior which are completely invisible and automatic, think Acute Onset Retardation here. Although painful, the mind will reflexively return to these habitual ways, causing avoidance with a capital A. This is perfectly natural; however, you will be thrust into the conditioned view of life. TNR training is disruptive to the world of the ordinary. It takes great courage and willingness to venture into the unknown or the unconditioned part of your reality instead of being held hostage by the invisible chains of your past. As people become more dependent on devices, the government, or others to do their thinking for them, their boldness diminishes to the point of becoming a shell of their former selves.
There is a barrier to understanding or experiencing anything of depth. You must be willing to go through the barrier of entering a fog of uncertainty, ambiguity, and being a white belt. Also required is an open mind, an open heart, curiosity, and a willingness to experience truth even if it’s not what you expected. A seasoned, successful doctor might say, “Who wants to go through that crap?” Maybe they have a nice family, kids, and house, all the trappings of what society calls success. Here’s the inconvenient truth: examining your inner depths is terrifying and, at the same time, paradoxically an adventure without comparison. Imagine a training that dares to fly in the face of merely showing doctors how to do something (money and new patients) without doing the inner work. This sounds like a substitute or an imitation to me: karaoke singers, insurance-fueled doctors, and BSOs. The list is endless. People are more comfortable with being lied to (gimmicks, marketing/sales, sleaze, covid, government will take care of you and your family) than journeying into the unknown and deciding what is true and patently false. TNR training sticks to its roots in never departing humanity and, at the same time, gives you economics as well. It’s a win-win instead of using force where there are always winners and losers, side effects, pollution, collateral damage, etc. One Head-to-Head slot remains on this weekend. Discounted tickets are available until October 30th. Call today to get your ticket.
Love Has No Color News
As the world gets further away from humanity and is replaced by AI and other outside-in forms of so-called intelligence (not wisdom), there is a noticeable departure from miracles. Miracles are acts of love that transcend our ability to figure out how they happened. This cannot exist in the world of computers as they know everything or they make up memes or approximations from their point of view (Western or scientific, linear, analytical, very limited). Here is an excerpt from a book I wrote over a decade ago called “The Making of a Miracle”; this was from the chapter written by Kenny Smoker.
“Miracles are the answers to our prayers; for a miracle to occur, you have to ask Jesus, Creator, God, Great Spirit to help with the impossible tasks, and believe that it can happen. I’ve seen it happen many times especially when the prayer has come from the heart. Recently, some of the Fort Peck Assiniboine and Sioux elders prayed for a miracle for our people and because of this, great things have happened.
First comes prayer, then faith or believing the prayer is heard. Then waiting for it to happen, which further instills hope when it does. When things seem bleak, we’ll often turn to prayer when it is all we have left. That is what happened over ten years ago when we met Dr. Kevin, an encounter that cannot be explained as a coincidence. Over the years, he has become like a brother and is someone who will put his heart into whatever you may ask of him. I often say that he and the people with Love Has No Color are an answered prayer, bringing hope to our children and communities. This commitment by my friends is unparalleled by anything that I have ever been a part of. It goes to show what prayer can do even in the most windswept barren land (as described by a recent writer describing our community) with all the negative issues surrounding us. This Partnership with LHNC is a miracle in the fact that it brings life to me and others.”
From the Mind of Miyagi
Thank you for all of the comments and feedback from last week's Mind of Miyagi. Consider this a continuation and a preview of what will happen at the next training. This composite of heartfelt emails from many female members says it all:
“I’m finally getting what you are talking about. Much of what you say goes over my head, and I have great difficulty putting it into real life. My spouse thinks I’m a part of a cult, and this creates much friction. When I look honestly at myself, I was dabbling before and merely playing a role in practice, marriage, and parenting. I was fooling myself into thinking I was something when I was really hiding. I was living a shallow life, going through the motions and hoping someone would make it all disappear. I wanted life to deliver what I wanted on a silver platter. I attended a training here or there or a Head-to-Head only when my head went underwater, like when I needed to get rid of the bum, my practice went sideways, etc., all of the usual stuff. Now, I am beginning to realize that you are sharing an owner’s survival manual of life itself. It shows a new perspective on living life, not my old ways of demanding life in a certain way: MY WAY!
Instead of protecting, resisting, or denying my inner garbage, I now see it as an initiation to become honest with myself as well as others for the first time in my life. It’s like your sacred grief pile in your backyard: it fertilizes the next generation with the waste of this generation. You are not the arbiter of truth; you are the witness. We must experience it ourselves. Nobody can give you the truth. You are the facilitator, the guide, and it’s up to us to make this journey. As you always say, it’s voluntary, and you can’t make anyone do it against their free will. Everyone I know, including colleagues, avoids things that make them uncomfortable. You ask us to be comfortable with the uncomfortable. Your concept of blending has changed my life.
Your storytelling is unparalleled. I often say this has nothing to do with me, but now I realize you are speaking directly to me. I can fool almost everyone in my life by acting immature, dumb, or by crying. It has no effect with you, you see through it with love. Before, I was not ready for such in-depth teachings; now, I realize this is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. It’s okay if my spouse doesn’t understand it; after all, I’ve just started to understand it myself. You don’t have to understand to love. It connects and completes me at a very deep part of myself. Belonging to a group like this is an experience I’ve never had. This insight that you supply must be experienced, not believed. I’ve grown from an immature, entitled, sorrowful person to a person expressing love and joy for everyone I interact with, including myself. This is a priceless gift in and of itself.”
Everything I do in TNR is to bring out this inner resource in every one of you so you can find an authentic way of living your life and directly experience it for yourself. I bet my life on the fact that you will find it infinitely more attractive, satisfying, and fulfilling than what you call life presently. Sitting right next to you at a training will be someone who has experienced a miracle or two themselves. Attend the trainings and see for yourself.
Miracle Training
Have you noticed how some DCMEs are HEAVIER than others? Do they have contempt for you, almost like they are being held against their will? Some act like they are doing you a favor by paying premium money, and they keep reminding you of this as they threaten not to renew, etc. You are at their beck and call. Do you check your cell phone for all of those texts at all hours of the day, including weekends? Your crime against humanity is attempting to help this person. How about the resistance, the cat-and-mouse game of being angry or disappointed, with resistance at almost whatever you do? “That’s all you’re going to do today?” “I don’t feel any different.” This is when so many astute, academic doctors fall on their swords. Getting under your skin is part of the process. It takes time and patience on both of your parts. If your DCME people are your friends, results will not be forthcoming, or you have a case of buyafriend.com: a person so lonely that they are not interested in results, just companionship. That’s a dimension of DCME, but not the whole dimension. It is a tiny part of it. With most people, when you go against their beliefs in sickness or what can’t be done, expect defiance, bitching, moaning, and protests ranging from Fbombs and flopping on the floor to other demonstrations of disagreement. This is a significant issue with doctors venturing into the unknown dimension of DCMEs. They want a more MD-like atmosphere of caring for people on an impersonal, sterile, superficial level.
DCME Confidential
Question 1: Many of my DCME clients are ungrateful and diminish their results, saying they don’t notice any difference and always defaulting to money, etc. Is this real or nonsense?
Answer: Getting merely good results is not miraculous. Complete transformations leave no footprints. The result is gratitude that lasts a lifetime. Look around the table at the next training.
Question 2: My DCME people are constantly negotiating with me. What gives?
Answer: It’s part and parcel of DCME work. You are holding space for them. It’s a tug of war and it’s a necessary part of creating a third, non-material entity. Call it the subtle body, the third body, the third ear, the sacred relationship. Without it, no miracle.
Marley
